Recently, I have heard several broken-hearted stories when boyfriends left ‘my friends’ for someone else.
One is the boyfriend left my friend for his ex-girlfriend after they had been in a relationship for 1.5 years. Their relationship was perfectly ok and all the sudden, the boyfriend changed his mind and he didn’t want the relationship anymore. My friend was left broken-hearted.
Another story, my friend was in a relationship with a guy for 7 years. They were college sweethearts and when they both came to Australia to study, the boyfriend apparently met someone else and left her broken hearted. They were loving each other and the relationship seemed perfect until the boyfriend changed.
Upon hearing these stories, I compared to my relationship.
I’m really lucky to have this man in my life. Sometimes, it’s good to be true. Sometimes I don’t believe that everything can go smoothly and yet I’m anticipating if the worst scenario comes. People told me that just enjoy it, don’t think too much.. he loves you and if one day he changes, nothing you can do about it. Don’t stress yourself with fears. Well.. I’m trying but yeah, I should admit that I’m afraid of losing this happiness. I’m afraid if I’m actually blind to see the defects in our relationship.. I’m afraid to be caught by surprise of something that I don’t know.
Being a human is not easy huh? When you are unhappy, you will try to better the situation in order to be happy and when you are happy, you question the happiness itself..
Anyway.. I’m glad that up to this day, I am still given the opportunity to love and to be loved :DÂ
